I pray that this e-mail finds you smiling and happy because of the wonderful blessings of the gospel in our lives. We truly are a blessed people. This week has been a very fast one, and I don't imagine that they will slow down. I had my second to last Zone Conference, and it seems that many things are trying to remind me that I only have a short time left. I know that everything has its time, but I would never want to look back on the next two months and think that I got 'trunky' at all. At Zone Conference, President Bullock made a cool announcement that next transfer's zone conference will be a tour of the church history sites in the mission. They did this the transfer before I left, so President Bullock wanted to do it so we wouldn't miss out. I am excited. I will not have another proper zone conference, which makes me sad.
This week we have had some success with working with members. We received three new investigators from member referrals. They are all younger, I think all of them are 15. One is from a family who has been bringing along a boy from their neighborhood for the last couple of weeks. Another is from a girl in the ward named S**** W*****. She is really cool, and we have developed a good relationship with her. She has been inviting two of her friends to a lot of things in the church, and on Saturday we were able to sit down and talk about the restoration. Members are the best. I continue to grow in my love for this ward, and consider it a great blessing to have served here.
There was a baptism in the ward on Saturday from the other Elders, Elder Atkin and Elder Wagner. It was a single woman named V****** J****, and it was wonderful. She is such a sweet lady. I am so impressed with her spiritual insights and excitedness about the gospel. Sister M*** H*****(baptized two months ago) gave a talk at the baptism. It was amazing! I was so impressed with her. She is a very smart lady, and has really been digging into her scriptures. We don't get to have as much contact with her anymore, which makes me sad, but I don't plan on losing touch with her after the mission. She is such a nice lady, and I have really enjoyed watching her flourish in the gospel.
I went on splits over to Chester this week with Elder Atkin. We had a good time. I like going to Chester, because it is a new area for me, and it seems that something great always happens on exchanges. However, whenever I go to Chester, it rains like mad! Not nice.
We had an amazing tea appointment with the S***** family on Sunday. Brother S***** is not a member yet, but he sure is amazing. He lives like a member, and is one of the nicest people I have ever met. He is so pleasant to be around. They are both from the Philippines. He is an amazing cook, and has been trying to give us cooking tips. I don't know how well it has sunk in, but it is a pleasure to always taste the outcome. They just had their first baby and have been trying to catch up on sleep. Despite that, we were roaring with laughter for most of the visit. Most of it isn't funny if described. One of those things that you have to be present for.
Well, I am happy to be a missionary, and happy to be in Wales. I hope that continues. I love you all, and constantly feel blessed to be a member of the family. Take Care,
Elder Jo
Current Mission Address
Mission Office Address
England Manchester Mission
Springwood, Ste G5
Booths Park, Knutsford, WA168QZ
ENGLAND
Connah's Quay
WALES
England Manchester Mission
Springwood, Ste G5
Booths Park, Knutsford, WA168QZ
ENGLAND
Current Physical Address
2 Golftyn DriveConnah's Quay
WALES
Monday, July 20, 2009
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
July 13, 2009
It has been a hot week in Wales, the temperature is nothing compared to Utah, but the humidity is rough, especially in a bike area. I have toned down quite a bit since being here. However, it will have random raining spurts, and right now it is having one. We were lucky to have the rain hold off on the stake carnival last Saturday. We were there for a couple of hours meeting some of the non-members, and helping out with the clean-up. It was really fun.
The week was a good one. We have really been struggling to teach current investigators and to find new investigators. There is one experience that I would like to tell you about. We were biking down the street near our home, and there was a lady outside of her door looking at us. She just looked different. I knew she wanted to talk to us. She let us in, and there were two guys who were there. The best part is when we shared the First Vision, she started to cry. We asked her how she felt. She said she 'felt humbled'. I thought that was a pretty cool way to describe it. We also had a less-active describe her feelings this week as we shared the First Vision. She said that the spirit made her 'feel strong'. I liked that description too.
We have been helping D*** W***** and his family a lot this week. His alternator died, and he has no money. We helped him out. We also took the alternator out of his car for him, and we are going to put it back in today. I know a bit more about cars now. Really, I just like figuring things out. I hope we don't hurt his car.
Well, out into the sudden monsoon. Love you all. I love the gospel and the love we feel from it. I look at people very differently. I look at them and wonder "Do they feel loved in their life?" I know that Heavenly Father loves them, and that they could experience so much love in their lives from him. I also know that they don't experience much love from their families, or the husband/wife, or partner. I am so grateful for the legacy of love that I have been blessed with. It is the only things I know how to do right. I love you all for that, Thank you.
Elder Jo
The week was a good one. We have really been struggling to teach current investigators and to find new investigators. There is one experience that I would like to tell you about. We were biking down the street near our home, and there was a lady outside of her door looking at us. She just looked different. I knew she wanted to talk to us. She let us in, and there were two guys who were there. The best part is when we shared the First Vision, she started to cry. We asked her how she felt. She said she 'felt humbled'. I thought that was a pretty cool way to describe it. We also had a less-active describe her feelings this week as we shared the First Vision. She said that the spirit made her 'feel strong'. I liked that description too.
We have been helping D*** W***** and his family a lot this week. His alternator died, and he has no money. We helped him out. We also took the alternator out of his car for him, and we are going to put it back in today. I know a bit more about cars now. Really, I just like figuring things out. I hope we don't hurt his car.
Well, out into the sudden monsoon. Love you all. I love the gospel and the love we feel from it. I look at people very differently. I look at them and wonder "Do they feel loved in their life?" I know that Heavenly Father loves them, and that they could experience so much love in their lives from him. I also know that they don't experience much love from their families, or the husband/wife, or partner. I am so grateful for the legacy of love that I have been blessed with. It is the only things I know how to do right. I love you all for that, Thank you.
Elder Jo
July 6, 2009
Greetings to you all from the place that can't make up it's mind concerning the weather. It is honestly worse than Utah in this way. It has switched between pouring rain and sweltering sun 3 or 4 times today. It always seems to rain when we go out. Lovely, in' it?
Today, we went to Conwy Castle. That is on the Western Coast of Northern Wales. Absolutely Amazing!!! Wales has everything. Unfortunately, as I was taking a picture of the castle as we were approaching it in a car, my battery declared itself dead! That was not fun. But, the other Elders got some pictures, and I am going to transfer them over to my camera so I can have them. I love technology, and mostly I love knowing how to use it.
Conwy is completely surrounded by walls, one of the few cities that is still like that. From the Walls you can see Lladudno, which is a resort town; and Snowdonia, which is where all of the really tall mountains are(amazing!); the Ocean; and some of the fields and valleys of Wales. Pretty sweet, eh?
There was a very cool shop there that had a lot of stuff on family crests and stuff. You could get your crest framed and it described the background and everything. Our Crest is pretty cool. The Welsh crest for Davis and Davies are the same. I bought a little magnet of our family Crest with a very brief description. I guess the ancient motto of the family was 'HEB DDUW HEB DDIM, DUW A DIGON' meaning 'Without God, without anything. God is enough.'
They also had a lot of Medieval stuff in that shop. Real swords, and helmets, and shields. I quite enjoyed the history of it all. The town is a very old town. We had a good time.
Yesterday, we took some less-active youth to a fireside. They would only go if we went, which isn't the best reason to go, but we tried to stay as far out of the equation as possible. I think they had a good time. While we were there, a woman walked into the church. She says that she drives by often trying to get in, but no one is ever there. She said she saw cars today, and was really happy to get in. She only knows bits about the church, and she wasn't ready to give us her address, but she said she will come to church next Sunday. I hope C**** (that is her name) is there on Sunday.
I don't know how much I have told you about a family we have been teaching. They are very 'well-off' and are christian themselves, but it seems like few religious people are as serious about church as we are. I am sure Taylor has a different experience in Georgia. We haven't been able to get far with them, because all three of their kids do a million things, and they go on vacations, but the mom is especially wonderful. She reminds me of my Mum. She treats her kids so well, she has short blond hair, and she is always interested in what other people are saying. We still don't know how she feels about the things we share, but she sure is a nice lady.
That is about all for this week. Kind of a fun e-mail. A couple other things, Elder Parker and I have a goal to read all of the New Testament, Book of Mormon, and Preach my Gospel in this transfer. We planned out how to do it, and we have been able to keep up with our schedule so far. Imagine that, all three books!! I don't know why I didn't do this earlier. It is great.
I also had a wonderful experience Friday night where Heavenly Father strengthened my testimony of the Atonement. I just knew, maybe more than I had ever known before, that Jesus DID perform that incredible act. I will never be able to understand fully how, but I know that he did. It was also communicated to me that He Lives, not Lived. I pictured the joy of our reunion, and I know that we are the luckiest people in the world to have the gospel. I wish others could see. I will keep trying. I love you all. You are an inspiration to me.
Elder Jo
Today, we went to Conwy Castle. That is on the Western Coast of Northern Wales. Absolutely Amazing!!! Wales has everything. Unfortunately, as I was taking a picture of the castle as we were approaching it in a car, my battery declared itself dead! That was not fun. But, the other Elders got some pictures, and I am going to transfer them over to my camera so I can have them. I love technology, and mostly I love knowing how to use it.
Conwy is completely surrounded by walls, one of the few cities that is still like that. From the Walls you can see Lladudno, which is a resort town; and Snowdonia, which is where all of the really tall mountains are(amazing!); the Ocean; and some of the fields and valleys of Wales. Pretty sweet, eh?
There was a very cool shop there that had a lot of stuff on family crests and stuff. You could get your crest framed and it described the background and everything. Our Crest is pretty cool. The Welsh crest for Davis and Davies are the same. I bought a little magnet of our family Crest with a very brief description. I guess the ancient motto of the family was 'HEB DDUW HEB DDIM, DUW A DIGON' meaning 'Without God, without anything. God is enough.'
They also had a lot of Medieval stuff in that shop. Real swords, and helmets, and shields. I quite enjoyed the history of it all. The town is a very old town. We had a good time.
Yesterday, we took some less-active youth to a fireside. They would only go if we went, which isn't the best reason to go, but we tried to stay as far out of the equation as possible. I think they had a good time. While we were there, a woman walked into the church. She says that she drives by often trying to get in, but no one is ever there. She said she saw cars today, and was really happy to get in. She only knows bits about the church, and she wasn't ready to give us her address, but she said she will come to church next Sunday. I hope C**** (that is her name) is there on Sunday.
I don't know how much I have told you about a family we have been teaching. They are very 'well-off' and are christian themselves, but it seems like few religious people are as serious about church as we are. I am sure Taylor has a different experience in Georgia. We haven't been able to get far with them, because all three of their kids do a million things, and they go on vacations, but the mom is especially wonderful. She reminds me of my Mum. She treats her kids so well, she has short blond hair, and she is always interested in what other people are saying. We still don't know how she feels about the things we share, but she sure is a nice lady.
That is about all for this week. Kind of a fun e-mail. A couple other things, Elder Parker and I have a goal to read all of the New Testament, Book of Mormon, and Preach my Gospel in this transfer. We planned out how to do it, and we have been able to keep up with our schedule so far. Imagine that, all three books!! I don't know why I didn't do this earlier. It is great.
I also had a wonderful experience Friday night where Heavenly Father strengthened my testimony of the Atonement. I just knew, maybe more than I had ever known before, that Jesus DID perform that incredible act. I will never be able to understand fully how, but I know that he did. It was also communicated to me that He Lives, not Lived. I pictured the joy of our reunion, and I know that we are the luckiest people in the world to have the gospel. I wish others could see. I will keep trying. I love you all. You are an inspiration to me.
Elder Jo
July 1, 2009
I am happy to report that I am still in this area in Northern Wales. And even crazier, Elder Parker is still my companion. It is unusual for missionaries to serve together for three transfers. I hope to stay here for my last transfer as well. I know, through the Spirit, that President Bullock listened to the voice of the Lord in this transfer decision. I know that Elder Parker and I are supposed to stay together, and that we are supposed to stay in this area. I know a couple of reasons why, and i am sure that more will continue to manifest themselves.
This past week went by very fast, but it was also a hard week, to be wholly honest. We have had most of our investigators discontinue learning, and haven't been successful in finding anyone who is willing to learn more about the wonderful gospel. More than ever do I desire to help people see how important this is. There is NOTHING more important. I have been very overwhelmed by how fast time is going. In some ways, I feel that I have been serving forever. However, in other ways, I feel that I still have much to give, although I am starting to feel like an old missionary.
We have been spending a lot of time strengthening members and less-actives in this ward, and we are having some success. It doesn't come up in numbers, but we have been able to serve them and show them our love in many different ways. I pray that their progress will be lasting.
I don't have much to report. Nothing has happened in finding new investigators, and none of our current investigators have really progressed. I do have one funny story though . . .
We are teaching a man named C****. He has a good heart, but he hasn't been very good at showing any commitment. He doesn't quite know how important it is. He offered us a drink on Sunday and we gratefully asked for some water(we have had a ridiculous heat wave this last week). He was pouring himself some pop. He accidentily poured three pops, so we told him it was alright and we would drink the pop. He brought it to us, and it smelled funny. It smelled a bit alcoholic. There is a non-alcoholic drink here called Schloer, which is kind of like Martinelli's sparking cider, and that smelled similar to this drink, so I believed him when he told us it wasn't alcoholic. I took a drink, and it tasted funny. We asked him to bring the bottle to us. He brought a bottle that was labeled Shandy. I had never heard of it. Underneath the name, I thought I read "Made with root beer". I should have been smarter, but I thought to myself, "Maybe that is why it tastes funny, because I haven't tasted root beer in a long time". So . . . I took another drink! It definitely didn't taste right. Well, this time I asked that my companion give it to me so I could take a closer look. My eyes focused on the label and I realized what I thought said "Made with root beer" actually said "Made with real beer". This Shandy is part beer and part lemonade. 12% beer to be exact. The alcohol content is less than .5%. However, any amount of alcohol has an effect when it is the first time it has ever been inside your body. Elder Parker and I had headaches the rest of the night. He was getting quite dizzy. So . . . this week Elder Davies got a bit tipsy!
I will leave you with that, because my companion is ready to go. I didn't get to share my sacrament talk with you. I will try to share it next week, or I may just have to share it in person, but you will hear it one day.
All things will fail except Charity. That is especially meaningful to me at this time. No thing can provide lasting motivation to be diligent except Charity. Remember to pray for Charity. I love you all!
Elder Jo Davies
This past week went by very fast, but it was also a hard week, to be wholly honest. We have had most of our investigators discontinue learning, and haven't been successful in finding anyone who is willing to learn more about the wonderful gospel. More than ever do I desire to help people see how important this is. There is NOTHING more important. I have been very overwhelmed by how fast time is going. In some ways, I feel that I have been serving forever. However, in other ways, I feel that I still have much to give, although I am starting to feel like an old missionary.
We have been spending a lot of time strengthening members and less-actives in this ward, and we are having some success. It doesn't come up in numbers, but we have been able to serve them and show them our love in many different ways. I pray that their progress will be lasting.
I don't have much to report. Nothing has happened in finding new investigators, and none of our current investigators have really progressed. I do have one funny story though . . .
We are teaching a man named C****. He has a good heart, but he hasn't been very good at showing any commitment. He doesn't quite know how important it is. He offered us a drink on Sunday and we gratefully asked for some water(we have had a ridiculous heat wave this last week). He was pouring himself some pop. He accidentily poured three pops, so we told him it was alright and we would drink the pop. He brought it to us, and it smelled funny. It smelled a bit alcoholic. There is a non-alcoholic drink here called Schloer, which is kind of like Martinelli's sparking cider, and that smelled similar to this drink, so I believed him when he told us it wasn't alcoholic. I took a drink, and it tasted funny. We asked him to bring the bottle to us. He brought a bottle that was labeled Shandy. I had never heard of it. Underneath the name, I thought I read "Made with root beer". I should have been smarter, but I thought to myself, "Maybe that is why it tastes funny, because I haven't tasted root beer in a long time". So . . . I took another drink! It definitely didn't taste right. Well, this time I asked that my companion give it to me so I could take a closer look. My eyes focused on the label and I realized what I thought said "Made with root beer" actually said "Made with real beer". This Shandy is part beer and part lemonade. 12% beer to be exact. The alcohol content is less than .5%. However, any amount of alcohol has an effect when it is the first time it has ever been inside your body. Elder Parker and I had headaches the rest of the night. He was getting quite dizzy. So . . . this week Elder Davies got a bit tipsy!
I will leave you with that, because my companion is ready to go. I didn't get to share my sacrament talk with you. I will try to share it next week, or I may just have to share it in person, but you will hear it one day.
All things will fail except Charity. That is especially meaningful to me at this time. No thing can provide lasting motivation to be diligent except Charity. Remember to pray for Charity. I love you all!
Elder Jo Davies
June 22, 2009
The week was unlike any other I have experienced on my mission. I don't know if I reacted to all things in the correct way, but I was trying. I was probably a bit on the edge, and sometimes I was just a bit empty. Maybe my spirit departed for a second to go be with some of you. Throughout the week, I was often thinking of you, and feeling sad that I wasn't there to help, but I know that I wasn't supposed to be there to help. That is why this happened while I was on my mission. I love the scripture from 2 Nephi 2:24, which comes right before the 'men are, that they might have joy' scripture. I do not doubt that 2 Nephi 2:24 was placed right before the joy scripture, because an understanding of this scripture really helps us find joy in all things. It reads, "But behold, all things have been done in the wisdom of him who knoweth all things." I have a firm belief in that scripture. I know that all things have been done in the wisdom of God, everything about each event, even down to the timing. Knowing that will help us find joy.
I loved to hear about the funeral service. It sounds like it was wonderful. I have gone over it in my mind, and it really must have been great.
We had a somewhat difficult week with our investigators. Everything seemed to fall apart. I am so grateful for tomorrows. I love fresh starts. Not to mean that we can put things off til tomorrow, but when a day doesn't exactly work out, we still have tomorrow to keep trying.
This upcoming week is when transfers are decided, and we will find out in a week or so. Transfer day is next Wednesday, so I will not be writing next Monday. If I stay, I will write on Wednesday. If I go, I will probably end up writing on Thursday. President has recently decided that he might need this flat for a couple more transfers. He isn't sure yet, he will know this upcoming week. But because he doesn't know, he asked our landlord if he could have a week to decide before he put in his final notice. So I have no knowledge of transfers. It will be exciting to find out what is happening.
I gave a talk in Sacrament meeting yesterday about the Plan of Salvation, and specifically the role of Father in the plan, including both Heavenly Father, and our Earthly Father. I forgot to bring it with me today, so I will send it next week. I enjoyed preparing it. The ward has showed a lot of love to me over the last week. I am well looked after. They are so kind and considerate, many of them shedding tears and not quite knowing whether to try to give me a hug to comfort me, or not. It is funny as a missionary because we do come to love the members, but we can't be fully open with our feelings. We are encouraged to not give hugs to the opposite gender, specifically if they are your age. Part is for the feelings of the missionaries, but mostly so people don't get the wrong idea. That can be hard to me, because I love giving hugs . . . to everyone!
Let us all grow from grace to grace, by living obedient to receive the light which is currently available to us. Love to you all,
Elder Davies
I loved to hear about the funeral service. It sounds like it was wonderful. I have gone over it in my mind, and it really must have been great.
We had a somewhat difficult week with our investigators. Everything seemed to fall apart. I am so grateful for tomorrows. I love fresh starts. Not to mean that we can put things off til tomorrow, but when a day doesn't exactly work out, we still have tomorrow to keep trying.
This upcoming week is when transfers are decided, and we will find out in a week or so. Transfer day is next Wednesday, so I will not be writing next Monday. If I stay, I will write on Wednesday. If I go, I will probably end up writing on Thursday. President has recently decided that he might need this flat for a couple more transfers. He isn't sure yet, he will know this upcoming week. But because he doesn't know, he asked our landlord if he could have a week to decide before he put in his final notice. So I have no knowledge of transfers. It will be exciting to find out what is happening.
I gave a talk in Sacrament meeting yesterday about the Plan of Salvation, and specifically the role of Father in the plan, including both Heavenly Father, and our Earthly Father. I forgot to bring it with me today, so I will send it next week. I enjoyed preparing it. The ward has showed a lot of love to me over the last week. I am well looked after. They are so kind and considerate, many of them shedding tears and not quite knowing whether to try to give me a hug to comfort me, or not. It is funny as a missionary because we do come to love the members, but we can't be fully open with our feelings. We are encouraged to not give hugs to the opposite gender, specifically if they are your age. Part is for the feelings of the missionaries, but mostly so people don't get the wrong idea. That can be hard to me, because I love giving hugs . . . to everyone!
Let us all grow from grace to grace, by living obedient to receive the light which is currently available to us. Love to you all,
Elder Davies
June 15, 2009
My heart, prayers, and tears are out to you at this time. I know all will be well. I know that I feel comfort, peace, and love. I know that Jaman is alright. I do not know all of the different things that all of you are dealing with at this time. I am sure that challenges and situations are presenting themselves at every turn. For that reason my heart is out to you. I wish that I could labor by your side, but I know that God will take my place as I am laboring for Him at this time. I have been frequently reminded of the scripture in 2 Nephi 1:15. It is Nephi explaining the love and comfort he feels from the Lord. He uses the gospel-popular phrase, "I am encircled about eternally in the arms of his love". I have experienced that constantly since getting on my knees after hearing the news. Many have wondered how I act as if nothing has happened and how I am coping. There are a few members that have lost their family members, and they just look at me with confused looks. I am not hiding anything, and I am not in denial. I am very open with it all. I attribute it to two things. 1 - I am not there. It is not as real for me. 2 - This plays a much larger factor, it is the knowledge of the plan of salvation. The knowledge of God's watchful eye over His missionaries, His arm of comfort, mercy, and peace.
You should all be comforted in knowing that I am not just being watched over spiritually, but temporally as well. I feel blessed to be in this wonderful ward at this time. Many have made phone calls, and visits. The Relief Society secretary asked me which days I would like meals delivered to the house. Everyone has offered their help. I have never enjoyed being a center of attention, and I honestly don't feel any physical needs. It is comforting to know that others are there, as I hope you now know that I am in good hands. As for spiritual needs, they are met by a loving Heavenly Father through the prayers of many loving, righteous family members and friends.
As I was speaking to Mom yesterday, she asked me to send something that might be able to be read at the funeral. I hope this is okay. You have the privelage of altering it if it is too long or short. I have really enjoyed reflecting upon Jaman and my love for him. Here it goes:
Dear Loved Ones,
I am honored to be writing this in memory of my great friend and brother, Jaman. I am at great peace at this time. I know the Plan of Salvation is true. I know that God has encircled me in the arms of His love. I am grateful for where I am at this time, and the blessings that God has poured down upon me. I know it was meant for me to be on a mission at this time, so I could play a role in God's plan. He has already opened the doors of opportunity for my testimonoy to be strengthened. I pray that I can be an instrument in His hands at this time.
I am still digesting much of what has happened, and my current situation is unique, but I have really enjoyed being able to reflect over the memories of and the lessons learned from Jaman. Each family member plays an important role in the make-up of his family. Jaman's mortal existance and passing have played thier respective roles in our Heavenly Father's plan. I hope that from what I share you will see the important role that Jaman played and how he will be sorely missed. In a way I am grateful to be thousands of miles away at this time, because I know that I wouldn't be able to share this with dry eyes. I apologize to the person who was chosen to take my place. Thank you.
There are too many memories of my time with Jaman to remember, but I fondly share some that have come. Jaman and I have a wonderful love for each other. I was the recepient of many of Jaman's expressions of love. We would spend many hours talking about sports, and getting our ESPN fix for the day. We would talk about all sports, from basketball to baseball, or from college football to curling. I vividly remember how we got so into the Soccer world cup, staying up all night, or 'tivo'ing the matches we would miss. I really enjoyed Jaman's gospel knowledge and insights.
He was a wonderful member of our family scripture study. I always looked forward to when Jaman would say family prayer. He was always heartfelt, selfish, and sincere.
I, along with many others, was frequently blessed with a phone call from Jaman informing us that he was on his way to subway, or Bajio, or Cafe Rio, or Wendy's, and then with the request of "What would you like?" He was frequently trying to find any occasion to give me a bit of extra cash. I always looked forward to a Big J Hug.
When Jaman thought something was funny, the whole neighborhood knew. We love his hearty laugh, it was contagious.
I was one who had the privelage of sharing a bathroom with Jaman for many years. You can only imagine what a joy that can be at times. Krista knows what I mean.
More than anything else, I will remember the way Jaman loved his neices and nephews. NOTHING is more important to him than they are. We will all remember watching him interact with each one. We knew the great size of Jaman's heart and love from those many moments of caring. I love the way he talks with them, the things he teaches them, and the way he holds the newborn babies. All babies should have a Jaman in their life.
Jaman taught me many things by word and by deed. He was a very busy person, but he always dropped anything for a family member. He would take the time to write a letter, or buy something. Family was always on his mind.
There was one member of the family that is extra special to Jaman. That is his mother. Jaman always shows Mom with great love and respect. He frequently writes secret letters of love, and presents her with a bouquet of flowers.
Jaman has a wonderful perspective. He can look at a problem with hope, faith, and insight while many of us were short-sighted.
Jaman is very practical and logical. He has a great mind. He is so smart and can figure anything out. He was often spectator to my blond moments, a rare occasion for others to observe.
Since coming on my mission, I have received many letters and e-mails from Jaman. I always looked forward to Jaman's letters, because he always made me feel special. I don't have many of the things I have received, but I always remember how fondly he talked about his mission. He frequently said he wanted to come back out and switch me places. He always shared how much he loved teaching, talking to people on the streets, and meeting with members. He ALWAYS mentioned this love for his mission.
I do, however, have a couple things I can share from what I do have.
"Elder Davies,
Hope you know how much I love you! I look forward to your e-mails and am so proud to have you as my bro. Happy Valentines! J"
"I know you're going to be a great missionary and I'm excited for you to have some of the Most Amazing Experiences of your life. My mission was both hard and very rewarding at the same time and was 2 of the Best Years of my life. I'm so glad you're my brother and I feel so lucky to know you."
"Remember How Much I Love You And How Important "The Work" you are doing is. Finish Strong And Have Faith. Miracles still Exist!"
In many, many ways Jaman will be missed. I cannot even begin to recount all the memories and lessons learned You will not find anyone else like him. No on can take his place. But he has made an eternal impression upon countless people. I love him.
I would like to finish with a quote by President Kimball:
"Being Human, we would expel from our lives physical pain and mental anguish and assure ourselves of continual ease and comfort, but if we were to close the doors upon such sorrows and distress, we might be excluding our greatest friends and benefactors. Suffering can make saints of people as they learn patience, long-suffering, and self-mastery. The sufferings of our savior were part of his education."
That applies to us today, and it was applicable to all of Jaman's life. Jaman learned much, because he struggled much. I have a testimony that the Plan of Salvation is true. I know that God has a plan, and not just a plan, but provided a way for the accomplishment the plan. It is through Jesus Christ. He lives, and because he lives, so will Jaman and so will we. I love My Savior, and I am grateful for his sacrifice with enables me to look forward to be reunited with my brother. I bear this witness in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen
Family. I look forward to hearing from you. Please document the funeral well. I love all of you.
Elder Davies
You should all be comforted in knowing that I am not just being watched over spiritually, but temporally as well. I feel blessed to be in this wonderful ward at this time. Many have made phone calls, and visits. The Relief Society secretary asked me which days I would like meals delivered to the house. Everyone has offered their help. I have never enjoyed being a center of attention, and I honestly don't feel any physical needs. It is comforting to know that others are there, as I hope you now know that I am in good hands. As for spiritual needs, they are met by a loving Heavenly Father through the prayers of many loving, righteous family members and friends.
As I was speaking to Mom yesterday, she asked me to send something that might be able to be read at the funeral. I hope this is okay. You have the privelage of altering it if it is too long or short. I have really enjoyed reflecting upon Jaman and my love for him. Here it goes:
Dear Loved Ones,
I am honored to be writing this in memory of my great friend and brother, Jaman. I am at great peace at this time. I know the Plan of Salvation is true. I know that God has encircled me in the arms of His love. I am grateful for where I am at this time, and the blessings that God has poured down upon me. I know it was meant for me to be on a mission at this time, so I could play a role in God's plan. He has already opened the doors of opportunity for my testimonoy to be strengthened. I pray that I can be an instrument in His hands at this time.
I am still digesting much of what has happened, and my current situation is unique, but I have really enjoyed being able to reflect over the memories of and the lessons learned from Jaman. Each family member plays an important role in the make-up of his family. Jaman's mortal existance and passing have played thier respective roles in our Heavenly Father's plan. I hope that from what I share you will see the important role that Jaman played and how he will be sorely missed. In a way I am grateful to be thousands of miles away at this time, because I know that I wouldn't be able to share this with dry eyes. I apologize to the person who was chosen to take my place. Thank you.
There are too many memories of my time with Jaman to remember, but I fondly share some that have come. Jaman and I have a wonderful love for each other. I was the recepient of many of Jaman's expressions of love. We would spend many hours talking about sports, and getting our ESPN fix for the day. We would talk about all sports, from basketball to baseball, or from college football to curling. I vividly remember how we got so into the Soccer world cup, staying up all night, or 'tivo'ing the matches we would miss. I really enjoyed Jaman's gospel knowledge and insights.
He was a wonderful member of our family scripture study. I always looked forward to when Jaman would say family prayer. He was always heartfelt, selfish, and sincere.
I, along with many others, was frequently blessed with a phone call from Jaman informing us that he was on his way to subway, or Bajio, or Cafe Rio, or Wendy's, and then with the request of "What would you like?" He was frequently trying to find any occasion to give me a bit of extra cash. I always looked forward to a Big J Hug.
When Jaman thought something was funny, the whole neighborhood knew. We love his hearty laugh, it was contagious.
I was one who had the privelage of sharing a bathroom with Jaman for many years. You can only imagine what a joy that can be at times. Krista knows what I mean.
More than anything else, I will remember the way Jaman loved his neices and nephews. NOTHING is more important to him than they are. We will all remember watching him interact with each one. We knew the great size of Jaman's heart and love from those many moments of caring. I love the way he talks with them, the things he teaches them, and the way he holds the newborn babies. All babies should have a Jaman in their life.
Jaman taught me many things by word and by deed. He was a very busy person, but he always dropped anything for a family member. He would take the time to write a letter, or buy something. Family was always on his mind.
There was one member of the family that is extra special to Jaman. That is his mother. Jaman always shows Mom with great love and respect. He frequently writes secret letters of love, and presents her with a bouquet of flowers.
Jaman has a wonderful perspective. He can look at a problem with hope, faith, and insight while many of us were short-sighted.
Jaman is very practical and logical. He has a great mind. He is so smart and can figure anything out. He was often spectator to my blond moments, a rare occasion for others to observe.
Since coming on my mission, I have received many letters and e-mails from Jaman. I always looked forward to Jaman's letters, because he always made me feel special. I don't have many of the things I have received, but I always remember how fondly he talked about his mission. He frequently said he wanted to come back out and switch me places. He always shared how much he loved teaching, talking to people on the streets, and meeting with members. He ALWAYS mentioned this love for his mission.
I do, however, have a couple things I can share from what I do have.
"Elder Davies,
Hope you know how much I love you! I look forward to your e-mails and am so proud to have you as my bro. Happy Valentines! J"
"I know you're going to be a great missionary and I'm excited for you to have some of the Most Amazing Experiences of your life. My mission was both hard and very rewarding at the same time and was 2 of the Best Years of my life. I'm so glad you're my brother and I feel so lucky to know you."
"Remember How Much I Love You And How Important "The Work" you are doing is. Finish Strong And Have Faith. Miracles still Exist!"
In many, many ways Jaman will be missed. I cannot even begin to recount all the memories and lessons learned You will not find anyone else like him. No on can take his place. But he has made an eternal impression upon countless people. I love him.
I would like to finish with a quote by President Kimball:
"Being Human, we would expel from our lives physical pain and mental anguish and assure ourselves of continual ease and comfort, but if we were to close the doors upon such sorrows and distress, we might be excluding our greatest friends and benefactors. Suffering can make saints of people as they learn patience, long-suffering, and self-mastery. The sufferings of our savior were part of his education."
That applies to us today, and it was applicable to all of Jaman's life. Jaman learned much, because he struggled much. I have a testimony that the Plan of Salvation is true. I know that God has a plan, and not just a plan, but provided a way for the accomplishment the plan. It is through Jesus Christ. He lives, and because he lives, so will Jaman and so will we. I love My Savior, and I am grateful for his sacrifice with enables me to look forward to be reunited with my brother. I bear this witness in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen
Family. I look forward to hearing from you. Please document the funeral well. I love all of you.
Elder Davies
June 8, 2009
We have had a hard-working P-day. Elder Parker and I are a bit different than most companionships. We take care of things that other missionaries often look over, like keeping the house in good order, and taking good care of the back garden. It is good that we have done this, because the mission is going to stop renting the house that we live in after this transfer. This morning we spent about 4 hours in the front garden trimming bushes, mowing the lawn, and raking up all of the dead leaves. Time sure does fly, and it didn't feel like it took that long. That is how P-days usually go.
This week I have had some bad luck with my bicycle. Over here the brakes are switched around. The left brake does the back wheel here, but in America it does the front wheel. Well, I was braking and I pressed the front brake hard, thinking it was the back brake. I went up on the front wheel just a bit, but when landing on the back wheel, I bent it :( This is the second back wheel I have bent. I promise I can be trusted with a bike. It was so ridiculous, but it gave Elder Parker and I a laugh.
We have had a good week in finding some new people. We actually found some families this week!!!! Hallelujah, Hallelujah, Hallelujah! This first woman is about to get divorced, but she has four young daughters, ages 10, 5, 4, 3. She came to Stake Conference yesterday -
Speaking of Stake Conference, President Uchtdorf and Elder Andersen spoke to us from the Hyde Park Chapel. It was broadcast all over GB and Ireland. It was great to hear from them. They talked a lot about missionary work and reactivation. That seems to be the focus lately. Maybe I just notice because I am a missionary -
Back to our new investigator. Her name is C*****. She had investigated the church 7-8 years ago, but had been stopped by her husband. The elders here tracted into her a few months ago and she wasn't able to meet with them then. She was thinking about the church the same day that Elder Parker and I felt impressed to go back and try her again. She set up an appointment with us. She remembers a whole lot of what she was taught last time. It is amazing. She goes on lds.org and mormon.org all of the time. We have taught her twice and she has a baptismal date for the 18 of July. We went for later rather than sooner, because we went her to feel ready, but it does mean that Elder Parker and I probably will not be here. For that reason, we are making sure we get a lot of member involvement right from the beginning. It is cool, becuase her oldest daughter's teacher is a member of the ward, so they will have frequent contact. Her daughters are so cute! So that is C*****.
We also were able to try back on a lady that I had talked to about two weeks ago. She lives in a really nice house, and come to find out she and her husband own a law firm. She is the nicest lady and her three children are amazing. They seem to be a typical 'Mormon' family with all of the good ideals and trying to do more than they have time for. Despite all of the craziness, they are always happy to see us. We have seem them twice already. The father doesn't really listen, but we get along really well with N*** and her two kids. They have a very big garden, and we usually find N*** out in it. She also has long hair that is much like Mom's. I have found Mom's counterpart in Wales! They are very Christian, and we are not sure if they are just nice or actually interested, but they keep allowing us to come over so it is great! We will see how well they start to keep our commitments to see if they are interested. I am frequently thinking about the family and how we can help them to progress in different ways. I hope everything works out!
We were able to have a good lesson with R*** S***** this week. He is the investigator whose wife is a member. He looks like a member, and he comes to church more than most members, but something is holding him back. His family has a strong Catholic background and he doesn't want to ruin that, although his sister has joined the church. I don't know what to do, and my mind is frequently on him and his situation. I hate to lose touch with these people. It is impossible to describe, but this is no small thing we are helping them to grasp, and we only hope that everything will go smoothly if we leave.
We had a Zone Conference this week, which is always fun. There is usually a musical number, and I love being asked to sing in the choir. The choir spends about 5 minutes before the conference to prepare, so it usually isn't great, but it is a good experience. Zone Conference was about personal conversion and getting back to the basics of the Restoration.
We had tea again with R** S*****' family. I love having tea over there. They are so nice to us, but then again all of the members are so nice to us. We are well fed, generally, and we always have a good time.
We are trying to help two less-active families come back. One is the D****, and the others are the W*****'s. D*** W***** is Big D*** and he is very active, but he is having a hard time with his family. Both families were very attached to the missionaries that taught them, and they don't have much contact with the ward. We are helping the W*****'s to improve their relationship through having family prayer and companionship prayer. Also to take time once a week to have some sort of inventory or council with one another. They haven't been following our invitations, but we are determined to succeed. The D***'s want to come to church this week, which is great. They don't have many friends in the ward, and I don't know if their home teachers visit very often. I always wonder about some of those things. It must be very hard to stay active in the church without a lot of friends, let alone hardly any friends. We are working with the ward to get them involved in this reactivation process. It is the right way to do it.
That must have been one of my better e-mails lately. I hope it is sufficient. Just so you know, personally - I am great. I am healthy and happy(most of the time) and staying focused. I love all of you and hope to find you well next week as well. Good Luck to Taylor who gets to meet his new companion soon. We all know he will do amazing things. My love is with all of you to Eternity and Beyond . . . .
Elder Jo
This week I have had some bad luck with my bicycle. Over here the brakes are switched around. The left brake does the back wheel here, but in America it does the front wheel. Well, I was braking and I pressed the front brake hard, thinking it was the back brake. I went up on the front wheel just a bit, but when landing on the back wheel, I bent it :( This is the second back wheel I have bent. I promise I can be trusted with a bike. It was so ridiculous, but it gave Elder Parker and I a laugh.
We have had a good week in finding some new people. We actually found some families this week!!!! Hallelujah, Hallelujah, Hallelujah! This first woman is about to get divorced, but she has four young daughters, ages 10, 5, 4, 3. She came to Stake Conference yesterday -
Speaking of Stake Conference, President Uchtdorf and Elder Andersen spoke to us from the Hyde Park Chapel. It was broadcast all over GB and Ireland. It was great to hear from them. They talked a lot about missionary work and reactivation. That seems to be the focus lately. Maybe I just notice because I am a missionary -
Back to our new investigator. Her name is C*****. She had investigated the church 7-8 years ago, but had been stopped by her husband. The elders here tracted into her a few months ago and she wasn't able to meet with them then. She was thinking about the church the same day that Elder Parker and I felt impressed to go back and try her again. She set up an appointment with us. She remembers a whole lot of what she was taught last time. It is amazing. She goes on lds.org and mormon.org all of the time. We have taught her twice and she has a baptismal date for the 18 of July. We went for later rather than sooner, because we went her to feel ready, but it does mean that Elder Parker and I probably will not be here. For that reason, we are making sure we get a lot of member involvement right from the beginning. It is cool, becuase her oldest daughter's teacher is a member of the ward, so they will have frequent contact. Her daughters are so cute! So that is C*****.
We also were able to try back on a lady that I had talked to about two weeks ago. She lives in a really nice house, and come to find out she and her husband own a law firm. She is the nicest lady and her three children are amazing. They seem to be a typical 'Mormon' family with all of the good ideals and trying to do more than they have time for. Despite all of the craziness, they are always happy to see us. We have seem them twice already. The father doesn't really listen, but we get along really well with N*** and her two kids. They have a very big garden, and we usually find N*** out in it. She also has long hair that is much like Mom's. I have found Mom's counterpart in Wales! They are very Christian, and we are not sure if they are just nice or actually interested, but they keep allowing us to come over so it is great! We will see how well they start to keep our commitments to see if they are interested. I am frequently thinking about the family and how we can help them to progress in different ways. I hope everything works out!
We were able to have a good lesson with R*** S***** this week. He is the investigator whose wife is a member. He looks like a member, and he comes to church more than most members, but something is holding him back. His family has a strong Catholic background and he doesn't want to ruin that, although his sister has joined the church. I don't know what to do, and my mind is frequently on him and his situation. I hate to lose touch with these people. It is impossible to describe, but this is no small thing we are helping them to grasp, and we only hope that everything will go smoothly if we leave.
We had a Zone Conference this week, which is always fun. There is usually a musical number, and I love being asked to sing in the choir. The choir spends about 5 minutes before the conference to prepare, so it usually isn't great, but it is a good experience. Zone Conference was about personal conversion and getting back to the basics of the Restoration.
We had tea again with R** S*****' family. I love having tea over there. They are so nice to us, but then again all of the members are so nice to us. We are well fed, generally, and we always have a good time.
We are trying to help two less-active families come back. One is the D****, and the others are the W*****'s. D*** W***** is Big D*** and he is very active, but he is having a hard time with his family. Both families were very attached to the missionaries that taught them, and they don't have much contact with the ward. We are helping the W*****'s to improve their relationship through having family prayer and companionship prayer. Also to take time once a week to have some sort of inventory or council with one another. They haven't been following our invitations, but we are determined to succeed. The D***'s want to come to church this week, which is great. They don't have many friends in the ward, and I don't know if their home teachers visit very often. I always wonder about some of those things. It must be very hard to stay active in the church without a lot of friends, let alone hardly any friends. We are working with the ward to get them involved in this reactivation process. It is the right way to do it.
That must have been one of my better e-mails lately. I hope it is sufficient. Just so you know, personally - I am great. I am healthy and happy(most of the time) and staying focused. I love all of you and hope to find you well next week as well. Good Luck to Taylor who gets to meet his new companion soon. We all know he will do amazing things. My love is with all of you to Eternity and Beyond . . . .
Elder Jo
June 1, 2009
We are going to Hawarden Castle today with the District, and my companion is waiting for me. He has already finished his e-mail, so I am sorry if this is rather short. Just know that no matter what, I am in good hands. I love the gospel and I love the Lord.
Back to castles, Wales is known for castles. We have seen some remains of the Ewloe Castle, and the Flint castle. These things are built on some very difficult structures and edifices. There are some castles that remain intact, but we live farther from those. It would require some transportation. When we come back, this has to be an area we go to. I have seen some pictures of the mountains up here in North Wales . . . breathtaking. There is so much to do. My new friend, our recent-convert M***, has decided that if we came back, she would be our tour guide. Sounds like a plan to me, any takers?
We have had a difficult time getting our lessons with investigators to go through, but we have been blessed to find some new ones. Unfortunately, they are all on holiday, or moving. There is one, however, that was going to be baptized 7 years ago. We are seeing her tomorrow. Her name is C*****, and she has 4 young girls. Her husband recently left her after cheating on her. That happens so much over here. I wish people could realize that the gospel is the ONLY way to lasting peace and happiness.
Elder Parker and I have been exhausted lately. We are riding bikes in hot, hot, hot weather. I know that it is nothing like Greg's Alabama Hot, or Taylor's Georgia Hot, but I am not used to this heat!! It is usually cold. Everyone is enjoying the nice weather, some people a little bit too much!
I love you all family. I have been recently reading the Doctrine and Covenants, I will also finish the Book of Mormon again before I go home. I just love getting in the scriptures, though I can't always remember them throughout the day.
I hope this was a good e-mail for y'all(How's that Tay?). I am so lucky to be serving with my brother at this time. I think about it a lot. I am so excited for him! Hope you enjoy some of the pictures I am trying to attach.
Elder Davies
Back to castles, Wales is known for castles. We have seen some remains of the Ewloe Castle, and the Flint castle. These things are built on some very difficult structures and edifices. There are some castles that remain intact, but we live farther from those. It would require some transportation. When we come back, this has to be an area we go to. I have seen some pictures of the mountains up here in North Wales . . . breathtaking. There is so much to do. My new friend, our recent-convert M***, has decided that if we came back, she would be our tour guide. Sounds like a plan to me, any takers?
We have had a difficult time getting our lessons with investigators to go through, but we have been blessed to find some new ones. Unfortunately, they are all on holiday, or moving. There is one, however, that was going to be baptized 7 years ago. We are seeing her tomorrow. Her name is C*****, and she has 4 young girls. Her husband recently left her after cheating on her. That happens so much over here. I wish people could realize that the gospel is the ONLY way to lasting peace and happiness.
Elder Parker and I have been exhausted lately. We are riding bikes in hot, hot, hot weather. I know that it is nothing like Greg's Alabama Hot, or Taylor's Georgia Hot, but I am not used to this heat!! It is usually cold. Everyone is enjoying the nice weather, some people a little bit too much!
I love you all family. I have been recently reading the Doctrine and Covenants, I will also finish the Book of Mormon again before I go home. I just love getting in the scriptures, though I can't always remember them throughout the day.
I hope this was a good e-mail for y'all(How's that Tay?). I am so lucky to be serving with my brother at this time. I think about it a lot. I am so excited for him! Hope you enjoy some of the pictures I am trying to attach.
Elder Davies
May 26, 2009
As usual, I don't really know where to start. Everyday we are working on getting better, and helping people. Everything just seems like a whirlwind. Some of the things I really enjoy about this area are, as you can tell, the ward and the scenery. The weather has been picking up the beginning of this week after raining the last half of last week. There is a lot of history and scenery that we don't even get to see or hear about, but I do love the stuff we do get to see. We went to the ruins of an old castle yesterday. I don't know much about the history, but we did get some cool pictures.
The Davies name is very popular in Wales. I see it on buildings for companies everywhere. I haven't been able to teach or meet anyone personally with the last name, but it is really fun to see the name all over the place. I hope to leave a good mark on this country, the country of our ancestors. Who knows if any other Davies from our family will be able to serve here!?
M***'s baptism went very well. D*** W*****, a member, baptized her. I heard that the water was very warm. She really felt wonderful after wards. She said that she went into the water with a kink in her neck, and came out without anything. She is a great lady. She is working on many of her friends, and she reads a lot of gospel stuff. I am impressed with how well she has made the transition.
I love studying the gospel, and I look forward to being able to continue this love when I get home. I was studying about knowledge recently, and how important it is for a missionary. I am not necessarily speaking about deep knowledge, or knowledge that we can bash with. But we must have a clear knowledge of our message. We must know it and share it so well that no one can misunderstand. B.H. Roberts says that the Spirit has a better opportunity of testifying when we state the truth more simply. The best way to really understand that gospel, and thus to state it well, is to live it. Applying the gospel brings added understanding, on top of the study of it. It is what the Lord means in the 88th section of the D&C when he says to learn by study AND faith. Applying the gospel not only brings added understanding, but enduring understanding. It makes what we learn last longer. There are so many things to study and learn, it is so exciting!
I will give a better update on the few investigators we have. That is the tough part, is finding investigators. And then the trick is to find interested investigators. It is difficult for some people to see how this would make a difference in their lives, when actually it would mean everything. I love our message. I love all of you. Please continue to pray for us.
Love,
Elder Davies
The Davies name is very popular in Wales. I see it on buildings for companies everywhere. I haven't been able to teach or meet anyone personally with the last name, but it is really fun to see the name all over the place. I hope to leave a good mark on this country, the country of our ancestors. Who knows if any other Davies from our family will be able to serve here!?
M***'s baptism went very well. D*** W*****, a member, baptized her. I heard that the water was very warm. She really felt wonderful after wards. She said that she went into the water with a kink in her neck, and came out without anything. She is a great lady. She is working on many of her friends, and she reads a lot of gospel stuff. I am impressed with how well she has made the transition.
I love studying the gospel, and I look forward to being able to continue this love when I get home. I was studying about knowledge recently, and how important it is for a missionary. I am not necessarily speaking about deep knowledge, or knowledge that we can bash with. But we must have a clear knowledge of our message. We must know it and share it so well that no one can misunderstand. B.H. Roberts says that the Spirit has a better opportunity of testifying when we state the truth more simply. The best way to really understand that gospel, and thus to state it well, is to live it. Applying the gospel brings added understanding, on top of the study of it. It is what the Lord means in the 88th section of the D&C when he says to learn by study AND faith. Applying the gospel not only brings added understanding, but enduring understanding. It makes what we learn last longer. There are so many things to study and learn, it is so exciting!
I will give a better update on the few investigators we have. That is the tough part, is finding investigators. And then the trick is to find interested investigators. It is difficult for some people to see how this would make a difference in their lives, when actually it would mean everything. I love our message. I love all of you. Please continue to pray for us.
Love,
Elder Davies
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